My closest is..A friend in need… who is usually unseen, not concerned with what everyone is doing and when, who goes on with their everyday life and enjoys an occasional conversation to just say and hear I have been thinking about you. They have been quiet for longer than usual as I am guilty of as well but there is no response to a quick note. Some inquiry among friends shared that she had lost her mother just as I had only a few years earlier and both before their time. This unexpected connection brought strength to friends to cope.
I am not even sure what some of these are